on the road

Jan 6

we have two roads in front of us at all times. within each moment we get to decide where we want to go.

first, there is the decision to follow the fate road. this is the path that we are birthed into. our family trauma and systems. it is the made up system society has created for us. you are a square peg fitting into a square hole. this is essentially a conveyer belt we are dropped onto the moment we are born…where everything is outlined until the moment we die. be born, go to school, go to work, chase money, retire, die, repeat.

then there is the destiny road. this is the road that hasn’t even been paved (our ancestors likely took some turns down this road from time to time but the lure of the known can sometimes be more intriguing). this it is a road we create on our own where no previous rules apply. here you are a star peg that morphs anytime you need to to fit into any space you see fit. this road takes more work, but with it comes with more lessons. and with the lessons more growth. on this path you are reborn again and again and have multiples lives within this one life.

before we took on this mission of the human experience, we saw ourselves go down these two roads knowing there was this test. the test is wether or not we will ultimately decide to do the work and make our own way by walking the destiny road or by taking the easy way out and following fate?

which road are you on? which road do you belong on?

the fated life is the one we are born into, the destined life is the one we choose create.

"You often meet your fate on the road you take to avoid it.”

“Now is the time to tap into that part of you that is inextinguishable. This is the part of you that you carry from lifetime to lifetime, the eternal part of you that exists beyond this lifetime and beyond.”

- Rebecca Campbell

“it’s choice, not chance, that determines your destiny.”

-jean nidetch

“Destiny means there are opportunities to turn right or left, but fate is a one-way street. I believe we all have the choice as to whether we fulfill our destiny, but our fate is sealed.”

"Explain time? Not without existence. Explain existence? Not without time. To uncover the deep and hidden connection between time and existence […] is a task for the future." John Wheeler

“When we heed the call of our deepest desires, we fulfill our true destinies.”

Deepak Chopra

“Our souls want more from their earthly experiences than just going through the process of survival. They want to experience joy, love and connection! They want to evolve past who we have been, into who we are becoming.”

-Christina Allen

“It doesn't matter where you are on your path, whether you've been living your destiny life for some time or if you are gathering up the courage now to answer the early niggles and whispers of it, your soul is always calling you every moment of every day. When we are living our destiny life, we are saying yes to listening, trusting, answering, and acting on the call of our soul every single day.”

- Rebecca Campbell